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Amanda Ebokosia at Miss New Jersey USA 2010;
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Thursday, April 23, 2009

Vacation

Hey guys I'm going on vacation for a week--


Work work work--


Big changes happening VERY soon.


Can't talk about it


Be prepared to be amazed.

Tuesday, April 21, 2009

What's bankable? Young Investors-The search for financial fitness--Penny Wise::Pound Foolish

“Penny Wise Pound Foolish”


My mother’s continuous chanting of the phrase, “Penny wise, pound foolish” as a child, reintroduced itself in memory as I spoke to an elderly woman in my neighborhood this afternoon. She recently turned 85 and just retired at age 83. As we spoke it became clear that she retired at that age by choice. I smile at the thought that she spoke with so much joy and youthful vigor, while expressing her weekly need to service her community 5 days a week. She did so by volunteering at our local hospital and offering her services at countless not-for-profit organizations as as a member.


Looking into her eyes I saw my own, it was just a few decades or so ahead, six decades to be exact. I’ve always had the desire to be aware of my financial needs and wants. My mother always talks about two extremes--business & medicine. Mostly about her work as a Physician and business because she herself owns her own corporation. I had beat her to owning a corporation first !



Well, she always used to chorus a popular phrase to me as a child and that was, "Penny wise, Pound Foolish". I understood the value of the penny before I knew the value of a dollar. I grew up from humble beginnings and those "brownies" are what opened my first bank account. I collected them under sofas, shoes, pavements, you name it! . My first account statement had a balance of 76.00 USD and I owe it to all the pennies I collected at age 10. I will never forget what it was like carrying my big container of pennies to our local bank in Philadelphia---so classic.


Reaching financial fitness is knowing the value of a penny and not necessarily a dollar. A dire economy may be the best time to understand your personal wealth,market, and need for financial growth


I have been alright with a FICO of 736 but it could always be better, and it changes from time to time. I am venturing off in a new phase in my life.It is the same phase that my girl pals are going through--ADULT LIFE. We are all 20 somethings and I have to say that I have a great group of friends who aim to become financially secure. The older woman who I met retired at 83, which is not the typical age for one to retire these days. However, everyone's goals are different.

My goal is to learn a great deal about investing in my future to ensure that my parents,brothers,future children,& perhaps husband are all financially secure and fit. That only comes with learning the market and understanding the basics of investing and what it all has to offer. I KNOW, I KNOW, I KNOW-- The economy is pretty shaky and it leaves a bad aftertaste in the mouths of all recent college graduates to even think about the word, Investment. Truth be told it is the best time to learn!


There is a reason why the "ideal" investment porfolio for a retiree has 50% of assets being secured in stocks


Amongst all the multicolored eggs you have from stocks,bonds,alternative investments,& CASH vechile--stocks have the highest long term growth. This calculation is currently having several financial advisers scratching their heads-- because it has left many clients saddened due to the economic crash. However, a recession will not last forever. People should not give up entirely on stocks. Many young investors are not and I am certain with more research I will be apart of these great group of people.


According to a recent article by Latoya Smith of Black Enterprise magazine, "The Young and The Restless",Smith has found that over 52% of young investors are trusting that the market will start to pick up a little towards the end of the year. We are the group who see the bargains in shares and wish to capitalize on them because we won't see retirement for another forty or so years--according to smith. For Example: TAKE GOOGLE:



  • GOOGLE in 2004 -- share -- 100USD
  • GOOGLE in 2007 -- share -- 715USD
  • GOOGLE recently -- share -- 356USD


Who banked fast? A young investor! Like most young investors he is confident that the companies that they invest in will bounce back. Smith spoke of Erika Smith, a young 20 something who is investing in cheap energy stocks and is equally confident because of the fact that the Obama Administration has placed a lot of focus on "green" energy. Start investing or learning the value of a penny before a dollar! Investing starts first with developing a good budget plan and having a savings account. It also starts with knowing the value of a penny before a dollar!


Please don't be penny wise-pound foolish:)


My favorite magazines that I own are:

The Network Journal, Entrepreneur,Black Enterprise, my mom's old JAMA :),Essence, and now SMART MONEY!


If you need any free websites that can help you further, email me at:
model@amandaebokosia.com


Save for tomorrow, Live for the future.

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Monday, April 20, 2009

@ THE PEAK @ 23


NOTICE:There was a computer glitch and caused a few words to not go through properly. My apologies-- I will fix it later.
"A smart leader knows their audience. The leader molds to suit and relate to them like a chameleon. SHE/HE knows that every group is different. Therefore, HER/HIS approach is different". — This is my discovery at XXIII-A.EBOKOSIA.



I’ve been frustrated this past week because I had about 3 articles backed up to post. I decided to erase all of them and forget consistency and for just a moment. I rather write one good one to keep you all up to date.


A lot has happened these past few days. I wish I could have recorded everything on tape for instant replay. As you know, I am in two productions in NY one is about love the other is about a documentary on models which is set to air this fall. I have been consumed mostly with my many hours of studying each day for my MCATS. My assistant helps a lot with image and her daily assigned tasks—to keep my projects up and running. It is almost as if I had a clone—


The week before my birthday I was very pensive. I thought a lot about what I’ve done and what I wish to accomplish this year. When I was 19 I did a great deal—I lived like popcorn. I was the kernel just waiting to pop. A lot has changed since then. I am more modest and appreciated becoming the foreground of a painting by just taking time to sit back and observe people. I became a better leader. This is why I say, “A smart leader knows their audience. The leader molds only to suit and relate to their audience like a chameleon. I know that every group is different. Therefore, I must approach every situation differently”. That’s my motto/philosophy/ and truths that sum up to the person who I am today.


Let’s all be like popcorn—be the kernel and burst out!


I am living to be a better woman every hour, minute, and second. I do not say tomorrow is a fresh start or a brand new day to get it right. I get it right—right now. If it’s not right, I make it right.

I told my close friend, Lianna, about my quest for perfection in many aspects of my life once. I know that there is no need to worry about such things. I have since come to terms with my perfectionist attitude– I just try to use my flaws to my advantage. I wrote a poem about it—and NO it will not be in the Raindrops volume II edition. It went something like, “ I am not the woman I wish to be maybe I will reach her at twenty-thre… just maybe I will reach her”. Pstt please that had to be about 2 weeks before I turned viente y tres , I AM THE WOMAN I WISH TO BE. Sometimes in life you are hit with lessons so fast that it leaves you thinking that it was almost last minute.
I am never going to be perfect ---period.

The birthday week was spent with friends who I love and who have my best interests at heart. I also started to expand my cooking techniques. My friend Jess says, she got a cooking book for me so I guess I’m going to be extra busy in my kitchen now.
Above are some photos of my latest dish of lasagna *smiles*--“look ma I did it myself!”



I won’t go into detail about what I did on my XXIII birthday, but I will say I spent it with two lovely gals, Lianna and Erin. We shall play Pétanque --soon.

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Monday, April 13, 2009

One friend, Two friend, Three Friend--Foe



One lesson I've learned growing up is that friends come as quickly as they go. True friends-real friends are the ones who stick around.

They're the ones who understand you before you give an explanation about an issue.

They're the ones who lift you up at your darkest moments, and are the ones who make you desire to become a better person.

The majority of my adult life I've lived with a free heart. A heart which greeted pain as well as happiness with the same welcoming smile. I opened new friendship and rekindled old friendship without a trace of cynicism. As I mature I find that friendships are what you make them to be. My discovery is that friendship is only alive if the two persons were benefiting from the relationship. Friendship is real. It is beautiful and the one fruitful thing that truly sustains life here on Earth.

"Humans are social creatures.If we all lived in isolation, I highly doubt that we would grow into the magnificent masterpieces we sought out from birth to become. Rekindle your friendships"


Recently in life, I have become a skeptic with certain friendships I had formed. This is partly true because I met an overwhelming series of disappointments. The type of disappointments that left you distraught while thinking to yourself, " I can't believe he or she did this? ". I've learned not to take it by heart. I've also learned to not hold it against anyone--we are all human. However, I have the ability to edit& delete people in and out my life, in order to live happily. This is a philosophy I have maintained and won't give up. By doing so I've made room for more positive relationships. With this newly adopted philosophy my friends and family grew considerably.

I am lucky to have at least one close true friend. I have a handful to be exact- one hand 1,2,3,4.. not including family. There is only one friend who I can completely let my guard down. I've known Lianna since my freshman year of undergraduate school. We got close within the span of two years I would say, when we lived together at our alma mater.


People need friends who make them want to reach for the stars!---and beyond

She is everything I would look for in the ideal friend. I trust her-

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Tuesday, April 7, 2009

Butterfly-Angels.




I remember writing the following earlier today:
"Let's be butterflies and transform into a being that "others" deemed impossible --AT FIRST! Let's all be GREAT & mature into the "Monarchs" we were destined to become!"
This year has been all about self transformation by acquiring knowledge not just from books, but by conversing with different people.
Last Sunday, was one of the most beautiful Sundays I've ever experienced. There are several moments in my life where I have a conviction that things just fit like pieces to a puzzle. Looking back, I wanted to often shout:" Where is the director of my life". I already know the answer to that, my director is GOD. Although, I am very into my own faith but I do love to learn about others. I had always said that I wished I took a theology course in college. It simply never happened. Well, that is what books are for right? I remember a friend of mine giving me the following book:



The Faith Club|By:Ranya Idliby

A Muslim, A Chistian, A Jew ---Three Woman Search for Understanding

The Faith Club is a novel that explores the lives of three inspirational ladies and their faiths. It is a must have if you wish to seek better understanding among people as a whole and their faiths. Let me back track---Last Sunday, was one of the most beautiful Sundays I've ever experienced. I was on my way from the Montclair/Belleville area to a church in Newark,NJ-- Why the commute you ask? I've grown accustomed to attending my church in Newark since I had lived there during my under-graduate years.

Last Sunday, I was running late but that did not hinder me. I made a promise that I would go so I was determined to fulfill it. I decided to just attend one of the many churches in my area. As I started to walk down a side walk I met her--Miss Ruth, an elderly woman sitting by a bench smiling to herself. I approached her smiling back and asked her if she knew if the Presbyterian church at the corner had an afternoon service. She responded back, " I know nothing of that church- I only go to Sacred Heart Catholic church". She added, " Please sit with me, I am waiting for the 12:00pm mass and you're welcomed to attend if you like". I was hesitant then, I never attended a Catholic Church. I decided to comply and sat down beside her.
That is when she spoke:

I will be 90 in August!
Wow that is truly a blessing!-(me)
Yes, I hope you will live just as long, and I hope you will be just as happy.
I really hope so...-(me)

Some people hold the keys to treasures we are yet to unlock!

I attended mass with her and had a glorious time doing so. I just enjoyed being with someone who has experienced things I am yet to find out. Surely, I will attend again a week or two before her birthday.At the end of the service she gave me a butterfly. It is so beautiful--it's a magnet that I can post on my fridge. It is worthy enough to wear as a broach.

On Thursday, I will be meeting with Dennis Bellone again for the film about love! Live your best life your way!


Plug: Check out my newest FB/ colleague friend :Lamech Obwoge.

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Friday, April 3, 2009

Knowing Your Limits--


I recently just canceled my appearance as a guest speaker on a panel televised recording.It was for the Model Walk show.It's for a program documentary set to air this October on Colours TV, provided by the Dish Network, on channel 9407. For those that don't have DISH, please visit www.colourstv.org, to view your state's local channel.
I simply wanted to put in more study hours and practice exam time for my MCATS. As much as I love my work here, you just have to learn your limits. I'm averaging about 6 hours a day with studies. It does not mean anything if you're not doing several practice exams. I need to up it from once a week to three practice exams--of course studying 7 days a week.

"Like people say, Work hard or go home!"

My apartment has been piled up high in newspapers from the Star Ledger to my favorite, New York Times. I have been trying to make an effort in reading the papers I purchase. I leave early to the library and come back real late. I know you wonder why do I even bother to keep yesterday's news. Well, I have this idea that I would find the time to read up on it.


"Besides, what's learned from yesterday will help you conquer tomorrow."


Celebrate your week well & this was intended to be short, I'll post Monday-- enjoy it.


Best Wishes,

Amanda A. Ebokosia

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Thursday, April 2, 2009

I wear my red cape around my neck--fitting the illusion of super woman!

I've been assigning duties to my beautiful assistant, Carmelys. She is helping me fit the illusion that I'm some kind of super woman. I just need to go out and buy my own red cape.It would have to be on sale, we are living in a time where being frugal is the new IN! Last Weekend, it was her birthday and we celebrated it in NYC. I took her to my favorite spot, The Bangkok Thai Restaurant, located at the infamous restaurant strip in Time Square by 42nd street. We topped it off with a few firsts for her.

"Life should be celebrated each day with a first in anything. We are the sums of our own experiences!"


So she tried coconut ice cream for the first time and welcomed the basic Pad Thai chicken dish. The ambiance of the whole place was so soothing and cozy, I just didn't want to leave (*****). Prior to the restaurant, we to Bryant Park and got the most amazing cupcakes from Crumbs. Check it out below!

We both tried a caramel apple cupcake which had an apple filling in the middle--absolutely delicious. We also tasted different varieties before leaving. Shortly after that we went to Borders. I thought it would be neat if she started on her first vision board there. A neat way to take on a new year of life right? If you're clueless as to what I mean by vision boards view this entry :(here).




During the process of assembling a VB for her a young lady sat beside us. At first, she seemed really into her novel which had to deal with "finding self", yes I know--I was nosy. I decided to strike up a conversation based on what I read from the title of her book.

This is when I came up with the following conclusion about the lessons we learn from life -- My AH HA moment--.
Be humble. Allow others to voice their inner most thoughts while taking the time to absorb it all. The best lessons are learned from the teachings of others by listening.

The young lady admitted she never made a vision board but revealed that she has always had one. She shared to us something special that day by telling us her story. We were complete strangers but at the end we all became friends. We learned a great deal about life and just how important it is to just listen.

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